When it comes to kids, fairness can be a tricky balance.
This parent thought he had it all figured out: go to college, and he’d cover the costs; skip it, and you’d better start paying rent.
But with three daughters working and paying their way, and one son heading to college rent-free, the family dynamics just got a lot more complicated.
Read on for what happened…
AITA for forcing 3 of my kids to get a job and charging rent but not the other?
I always told my kids that if they go to college, I’ll take care of everything else. Told them that since they were little kids.
Now I have 4 kids. 3 daughter and 1 son.
The 3 oldest (the daughters) decided college wasn’t for them. I understood but I told them they can’t just sit in my house.
I made them get jobs and I charge them rent: 200 a month.
Seems reasonable.
They’re all doing well but they all still live in the house.
My youngest is 18. That’s the boy. He graduated 3 months ago but just got accepted into a college.
I did not force him to get a job as I said if they go to school I’ll literally do everything else.
He himself decided he wanted a job. He works at Fedex and makes about 300 a week.
I don’t charge him rent and I’m still gonna try to take care of him until he’s done with college.
So goal-oriented!
My daughters are more than mad that he’s not paying anything. They believe him having a job means he can pay something.
They also believe I shouldn’t take care of everything for him if he has a job and he’s not paying rent.
I’m not charging him rent because he’s going to school. Him getting a job changes nothing in my mind.
He simply saw this as a golden opportunity and is running with it.
What a pickle.
AITA for forcing my daughter to get a job and charge rent while my son doesn’t have to pay anything because he went to school?
Ah, a classic case of promises made versus sibling rivalry.
Though everyone’s mad, Reddit’s verdict is that Mom is not the AH here.
This person says a deal’s a deal.
This person points out the rent is an all-time low.
This person says she’d even increase it!
Fair’s fair—hit the books, skip the rent.
Mom’s just playing by the rules.
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